How to find your own unique twin flame

Written by Amber

Taking a look at how to find your own unique twin flame, there WILL be an immediate bond both spiritually and emotionally between you and your twin flame. A twin flame is not the soul mate connection…the soul mate connection can happen between siblings, relatives and friends etc.

hands-coupleYour own unique twin flame is the other half of your soul, at the time of creation you are given two souls a male and female, the soul is split in to two and both souls will learn their own lessons.

The soul mate connection is one of ease and comfort, the giving and receiving of boundless love. In contrast the twin flame relationship can be difficult; after all they will be the mirror of you, which can cause some difficulties. However the twin flame relationship WILL be open and honest, all will be laid bare, no falsehoods.

So how do you go about finding your own unique twin flame? There will be a tremendous and intense bond between you. Twin flames ARE able to sense each other’s emotions even when they are not together. The twin flame connection is two sided both twins will feel immense love for each other, with no malice.

So how do you go about finding your own unique twin flame? It is rare that twin flames are incarnated at the same time, normally one twin will be in the Ethers while the other is on the earth plane. However sometimes twin flames will be incarnated on to the earth lane during the same time, however not necessarily in the same place even country, even the ages may differ.

To realise how to find your own unique twin flame…In order to find your twin flame, it is IMPORTANT to be open and receptive, there is no need to go on a quest to find your twin flame, you should simply carry on with your life, if you are meant to connect with your twin flame in this life time you WILL.  Typically, when twin flames connect it is unplanned and leaves no doubt that it was meant to happen, WILL make you feel whole and complete and with a spiritual purpose to fulfil.

One of the key characteristics of a twin flame relationship which will help you identify if you have indeed found your own unique twin flame is you will experience the ultimate feelings of love and attraction to the other person, this can be described as the feeling of completeness even when you are not with your twin flame.

Typically you WILL feel as though you have always know the other person even on the first meeting, you may finish each other’s sentences, have the same thoughts, even ring or text simultaneously. Sometimes twin flames will find themselves buying each other similar or the same present/gift or they will have similar experiences.

They have an immense NEED to be together regardless of the obstacles or distance that they face.

Some of the other key characteristics of a twin flame relationship are:

  • Instant connection, leaving NO-DOUBT this is your twin flame.
  • Openness, honesty and trust, holding no secret or detail, lying everything open to scrutiny.
  • Never tiring of each other
  • Never rejecting or abusing the relationship
  • Total acceptance
  • Deep feelings of purpose and an urge to do good, spiritual connections
  • Even in times of conflict, or stress the need to re-unite is strong
  • Typically twin flames love each other unconditionally and totally and will have a bond that is evident and un-breakable


They are mirror images of each other (NOT IN LOOKS BUT WAYS) due to their striking similarities. Giving and NOT expecting anything in return is also a key characteristic of a twin flame relationship, it will be felt that this bond will last for eternity.

The meeting of twin flames can’t be planned, the meeting is dependent on life experiences; if and when you meet your twin flame is not something you can force or foretell, it will be if it is meant to be in this lifetime.

It is believed that twin flames will meet and the creative energy between them will be used for the good, they WILL meet for spiritual work, to enhance and reflect a love to the world, to make it a better place this WILL influence and attract others and the cycle will continue.

It is therefore a beautiful experience when twin flames connect; however remember you are a mirror image of each other therefore this relationship may not be plain sailing. Any differences in up-bringing, circumstances and age can also cause difficulties but the emotional and spiritual pull between you both WILL help you to overcome these.

Do not worry if you have not yet met your own unique twin flame the Universe has this in hand and when the time is right you will meet, either in this life time or in future incarnations.

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